Gosh. Agree with George. Highly toxic and kids are attracted to seeds. I am not sure but I think some municipalities have banned them. I would ask her if you could do a swap... say you can't get one and in other words ask her if there is another plant that you could buy her in place of the bush eg a dwarf apple from Bob Magnus in Tas, then she would have a pretty and useful tree!!! Good luck. It is always stressful dealing with neighbours!!! Cheers, Pam