Hi Maureen. I did think it must be you. Gosh, such a shock. And so many things to think about just when you are at your lowest and most vulnerable. I have a reeally lovely friend near you. She is about 62 I think and really into gardening etc. She is just the best. If you are interested in contacting her eventually I will ring her. Her name is Cheri, just in case you already know her. I often think of you and hope you are managing. Yours Pam