Yes, I neglected to say that we are upfront and honest with each other. I can tell him what I want or need (such as a hug, or another kiss) and he responds positively. I don't think I've ever asked if he could be more affectionate. I kind of think he can't. He's never BS'd with me who he is - that I admire very much about him.
So sometimes, when I'm feeling out of my happy little place, I wish I would get some immediate attention. Then again I don't like feeling needy or sorry for myself. Does that make sense?
Louise, what you said I do understand. In the long run, thats what it comes down to for me too. I value our time together, what he does for me - we are going to Las Vegas in July, which he is doing for the both of us, but he wants me along - and of course in the small ways he cares.
I'm sorry to hear your partner is not physically with you right now, that is hard and I wish you well and hugs getting thru this period. But it sounds like you have a fantastic relationship and keep smiling.
Thanks for your response. This board really works wonders for the soul.
Carol