Hi Pam,
You know, I can understand after one is married or in a long-term relationship thats one day ends, why one would not want to get into another one! I'm now just realizing what its like to be me again. For a long time I was mother to 3 children, yes, including the husband.
I thank you for your words of wisdom my friend. I'm trying to get out of my humbled and tolerate shell.
I hope all is going well with you. Love and Hugs,
Carol