You're totally welcome. I haven't been on here for very long, only a couple of months actually. I've cried a zillion times because people are so nice. And I understand about people looking at you differently. I definitely understand. I've held my tongue on plenty of occasions, even to family members. Mainly because they don't need to know, and partly because I'm terrified they'll be disgusted with me. (I know, that sounds like a dumb thing to be afraid of) Like, I'm contaminated or something.
Well, you did better than I did about finding the site! You did it all by yourself! 
(And no, I'd never mind if you wanted to share. I love hearing from people.) I found that article too, and I was really saddened by it. So I wrote TR a letter to tell him about it. Lo and behold, he wrote back! That's how I found out about this place. And I'm forever grateful that he told me about it. (Hope you don't mind I shared.)
Take it easy....
careasa