Britta, your comment made me think of this country song, and I don't know the name of it, or who sings it, but it is about a woman who sees a photo of the OTHER woman in the paper, probably an engagement photo and who hasn't done this, she blacks out her teeth and draws horns on her....and I wish I knew the name of it, anyway...it was what went through my mind when I read your post. She may be an angel that spends all winter bringing the homeless blankets and dinner, but I really hate her, I will think of a reason later....it just seemed to fit.