Hi all
Been in Pa since the 29th of OCT. Don't know how long it will be I am out here on a freinds AOL account so I can talk with all the nice people here.
Jane thanks for all the info it has went swell with dad a week after then did the prostate surgery which they didn't remove it as I here it is like rotor router the do something like a laser they used I hear anyhow after a week they took the thing out of dad, (I am trying not to be to graphic here folks) he went to the doctor and then had to put the thing back in he was not able to pee on his own but he had lost a lot of weight and he was very sick 3 days ago so he had been very dehydrated for a week the doctor said to push the fluids in him so I did but he lost all I had got in him 3 days ago and then I called he general doctor and he said to get him to the emergency so I called a abulance and off we went so they did test and he doesn't have a infection but he has been in a lot of pain and the day we had him go to emergency he was so week when he got up in the morning as he walked he looked like a drunk walking (my daddy dosn't drink) so I knew it was time My son and I knew this was going to happen but we didn't know when.
Terry is back with my animals and feeding them he is dong ok he has some pain but he is not letting it get him out of work he is dealing with it. Since dad has been in the hospital things are easier they are easier since mom is going but dad making noise of pain he is not as he claims he is making more of it but some of what he has said is true. The pain in his bvelly is because of swelling for the surgery and the lawst 2 days he has had for a one time deal Daluadid 1 mg so I know he was feeling better but it seem to make him think of things like today he asked me if I still a 3 legged sofa I said yes I have no clue as to what he was thinking or he said he could see a big jar when his eyes are closed m.... odd huh?
I am not to go tonight but tomorrow I will. I went when mom was in hospice and the hospital every day but dad is as bad as mom was.
Tought I would catch up you on things.
Rhayden