Thanks michelle,
It is hard to watch someone slipping way, I watched Terry's mother die. My mother is not so bad yet but it is taking it's toll on my father and all the paper work he has to fill out. I have talked with the angency for aging and this woman has been helping dad through all this paper work. dad is overwhelmed. In March I wanted to do all of this but he wouldn't let me now I am not around and I can't keep running from NC to PA. He should of decided this while my sister was around, she was there about a week long time huh? Bet she couldn't wait to get her butt back to MO. I think my mother is going to go by a gran mal stoke it would be a blessing and a relief.
Thanks again
Rhayden