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NOTE: The poster of this Message is NOT the Author of the Article. Please see any References in the Article for any desired contact information. Thanks! ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ The Story of Your Life November 2, 2008 Channeled by Serge J. Grandbois and transcribed by Ellen Gilbert (Kwaa'Ji) Recorded in Toronto, Canada on Sunday, November 2, 2008 Roll Call: Serge (Joseph), Mark (Philip), John (Sohars), Theresa (Ramanuja), Lisa (Lauramar), Ellen (Kwaa'Ji), Brian (El-Don), Tom (Desiré), Anya (Greensleeves), and Alan (Regoronn) (7:43 PM) KRIS: Now we trust that you are comfortable and we thank you for your consideration. MARK: Thank you. KRIS: Do you like the story of your life so far? BRIAN: Yes! ELLEN: Better and better! TOM: Yes. LISA: Yes! MARK: It's a best seller! ELLEN: It's a heartbreaking work of staggering genius! (Snickering. I had made the same remark earlier as we were awaiting all participants to assemble for the session, using the phrase to describe Kris' new book "Discourses on Dreams," then joking that the title is already taken: "A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius" is a memoir written by Dave Eggers.) TOM: It's my favorite story. KRIS: Indeed, and when you come across different parts or sections of the story that do not bring you the results that you desire, the outcomes that you aim for, what do you as author of the story, do? TOM: Edit? KRIS: Indeed and what else? MARK: Re-write. BRIAN: I don't know, Kris, you know what? I can look at some parts that didn't go as planned, but still would not change one thing about it because of where I've arrived here. It's through experience that you arrive at this point in this now. KRIS: On the one hand, that is an interesting observation and on the other hand you must also recognize that there are many different aspects of your particular story that you have re-written so that you get an outcome that pleases you. Correct? BRIAN: True. Quite correct. KRIS: So both observations have their place. Like any good author, any of you have a storyline and you develop that storyline as you go along, as you also invent other characters, other sets, other scenes and situations, setting the mood as it were, and so on. Setting the stage, creating a unique tone or flavor. And as you do all of these things and weigh them together, you may notice obviously that certain traits and characteristics of your characters, or even the main character, overall have a satisfactory presentation. And at the same time [you] may use certain additions, certain enhancements, so that the character in your story, the main character or any character in your story develops a personality, adds spice to the story, fills out their role. Does that make sense to you? BRIAN: Oh, absolutely. KRIS: Thus any of you can then exercise that right, correct? ALL: Yes. KRIS: And in some respects, is that not what you already do with these types of these discussions, with the many different books and materials that you read, in the way you reflect upon your storyline through the auspices of the other characters in your story, in your environment. Does that make sense to you? LISA: Yes. KRIS: And do you recognize just how potent that innate ability to enhance the traits and characteristics of the characters, including the main character in your storyline, just how potent this is? BRIAN: First hand! KRIS: And there are many different kinds of tools and resources of course that you have and that you have been developing over the years and over the course of the storyline of your life to do just that specifically. And as you grow in wisdom and awareness, you recognize more and more that it is not others who bring change to your storyline inasmuch as it is you as the author of that story of your life. It has that ability, correct? BRIAN: Correct! KRIS: Now where does the writing of this story take place? ELLEN: Within your experiences. KRIS: In part. BRIAN: Within the neo-conscious? KRIS: In part. ELLEN: Well, it's the substance of your life. It's written in time and space. KRIS: It is not overly metaphysical an answer. ELLEN: No, definitely not! (Chuckling) KRIS: When you close your eyes and you examine the contents of your mind, what do you call that? ELLEN: Your imagination. KRIS: Indeed, the NATION of the IMAGES of yourselves. What would that lead you to observe then? MARK: We have much more creative control over our story than we give ourselves credit for. KRIS: That is correct. TOM: That our story is actually taking place in Framework 2, the psychological framework? KRIS: That is part of the process, but that is not where you LIVE that story. You live it in real time and space. In so many words, whether you refer to it as Framework 2 or your imagination, you become conscious of the storyline within your physical framework. You become conscious of that story in the context of your body and your identifications with it and all of what encompasses that physical body. Though you put together the elements of that story at another layer of reality, the place where you display that story is in physical time/space. Does that make some sense to you? In other words, it is in physical time/space that you become conscious of that story of your life. This is simply another approach that can give you a tremendous deal of empowerment in realizing how it is that you come to fulfill, consciously fulfill, the storyline within real time/space. That also brings about another observation: If the storyline itself is put together outside of physical time/space, but enacted within physical time/space, then you have a tremendous ability to go back to that very same place the storyline is being put together when there are those opportunities and occasions when you deem it necessary to make changes to the storyline, correct? ELLEN: Yes. KRIS: As such then, you have a tremendous opportunity. It means that you are not stuck with the writings of someone else, because they are your writings. The story is not someone else's. It is yours, correct? ELLEN: Yes. KRIS: Then what kind of tools and resources do you utilize as authors to put your story together? Do you understand what we mean? ELLEN: Nope. TOM: I think I do. Meditations, visualizations and our actions in our daily life? BRIAN: Emotions, intuitions, intellect. MARK: Belief structures. KRIS: All of these are items you use to take the raw elements to give them a definition that you then enact or live out in real time/space. (Pause) First and foremost there is the desire to be. Does that make sense? And what else would you add in there? ELLEN: Desire and . Intention you mean? KRIS: Indeed. And remember, you are putting together more than the ingredients for a chocolate cake! ELLEN: Love and will. KRIS: All of your answers so far are quite acceptable. First and foremost is that desire to be. The desire to experience, which is then BEING and from that particular place, you put together, you assemble, all of those ingredients in such a way that you are uniquely yourselves but still part of the human species. And that very same energy provides all of the ingredients at that level of reality experience for you to accomplish what you set out to experience. But again, the greatest of all recognitions, possibly the deep awareness is that you have this ability, that you are not trapped in your story, that the story itself may even include a twist and a plot here and there where you may momentarily believe yourself to be trapped, from which you then discover that you are not. And some of you may even create turbulence and other dramatizations of life such that when you recognize your story, you can draw rich experience from it and know and recognize how you can make any future scenes richer for the experience without having to go through any other traumas of any kind. Does that make some sense to you? BRIAN: Absolutely! It's what I went through with (name removed) to get here! ELLEN: (Chuckling) Yes. BRIAN: It's true! I mean I wouldn't be here without that, and that was my creation. KRIS: And at the same time you may recognize that in order to get somewhere else in what you call the future, you do not have to re-invent the wheel as it were. Do you follow? BRIAN: Oh yes. Absolutely. KRIS: What else may be interesting about this power that all of you have in writing the story of your life? ANYA: I think what's interesting is the realization that I'm not the story. As you were speaking on the subject, I kept thinking sometimes that I get so much identified with the story that I forget to step out. And if I step out and something is not changing immediately there's something wrong or I'm not doing it right, and that's not helping either. KRIS: Indeed. Now this next inquiry is not to you specifically, but to all of you. When you read a good book, where the author captivates your imagination, where the characters are rich and rounded out personalities, where their traits and characteristics seem to resonate with you and your imagination then brings that story to life in your imagination and you derive benefits and satisfaction; what is it about that story that intrigues you, that seems to fascinate you so much? THERESA: You get to have experiences that maybe you haven't had in your waking life. You get to have them vicariously through the characters in the novel. KRIS: That is very good. BRIAN: You can see your own potential through the character, a heroic self, or something that you would like to do. KRIS: Indeed, and what do you do when you come across stories that enrich you in that way? BRIAN: Imagine. KRIS: Indeed! And what do you imagine? BRIAN: That you could be that character or you could live that storyline. KRIS: In other words, you derive some form of benefits that influences YOUR story, correct? BRIAN: Correct. KRIS: And does it not, in light of our discussion moments ago, does it not and would that not invite you to recognize how much richer and fulfilling you can make your own story? BRIAN: Oh yes! THERESA: So are you suggesting that we should read lots of novels? (Laughing) BRIAN: Yes, "Discourses on Dreams." You must go get it. (Group chuckling) KRIS: Of course, Harlequin romances would be out of the picture. THERESA: Aw! KRIS: Now all kidding aside, we invite you then to follow along on a little journey. Sitting there where you are right now, wherever it is that you are, at your computer desk, somewhere in your home, recognizing the rhythm of your breathing, the inhalations and exhalations, breathing in and breathing out, noticing as you are sitting there in your chair or desk chair, perhaps there is something that you are looking at, the monitor or the wall, paying attention to the sound of our voice as well as noticing what you are looking at and perhaps right through what you are looking at. Perhaps even noticing that your eyelids are blinking. both eyelids blinking together, inviting deeper and deeper relaxation to also become part of your experience in this moment.. even your breathing becoming more and more relaxed.. All tensions and stresses in the body gradually fading away.. Even your thoughts of stresses and tensions and even thoughts of your body momentarily fading away as if you are unconcerned by all these things. Focusing on the sound of our voice and the relaxation. And as you continue breathing in this way and your eyes blinking, noticing perhaps your eyes becoming heavier, the eyelids perhaps even wanting to close all on their own.. any sounds in your environments simply adding to your relaxation.. and perhaps even noticing that your eyes are now closing shut or are already closed shut.. More and more relaxed. And reaching deep inside now, deep inside for a kind of wisdom, for that profound wisdom that enables you to write the story of your life, for you to understand how you write that story, even if your conscious mind doesn't fully understand all the processes involved, that your conscious mind can be comforted that the place this story comes from is a place of deep wisdom, a wisdom that comes from even further back in time than any histories that your race can remember. It is a deep place within you where you are safe, where your interests, where your intentions are all supportive and nurturing. In that place the tools of the imagination are at your disposal, always available to you as you tap into it all the time to create that story that then becomes your life, that you always have the ability to write more potentials and more choices in that story of your life. The best interest of the main character and all other characters is uppermost in your wisdom and that the stories at times can appear filled with dramas that have a purpose, that have an intention, that intention being the development and awareness of the main character, even if at times it is expressed through the other characters that are part of the story so that as the main character, whether it is directly or indirectly expressed, you always gain in awareness and in wisdom. And like any good author, you always make it so that the main character always has an advantage, always has an entrance and exit strategy, even several such strategies, so that the way the main character evolves is enriching the main storyline and that place of deep inner wisdom in its own ways understands the words that you also hear and that it seeks to always establish a good communication with whatever character you create for yourself. And that regardless of the appearance of a situation, regardless of the appearance of the storyline in that place of deep wisdom, ideas and concepts always flow easily and naturally to fulfill the context of the story of the character and everything within the drama, and that you may at times look about you in that physical real time life story, and though you may at times think that your story is boxed in, you can always return to that place of deep wisdom inside, just as you are now, and in that atmosphere within you of deep wisdom you can make enhancements and adjustments to the story so that always the main character is sustained, that you always are supported. Note, take note now, notice the feelings, even the vague images of the story as it is presently unfolding, that you have written as part of your storyline right now, another individual speaking about the story that you are composing, putting together, as a means to assist you in realizing that you always have choices, opportunities and advantages, always a means to grow, always pointing in the direction of the awakenings and the enrichment that is yours and how that becomes part of the imagery. So when you take that part of the story into the rest, you know for certain that the tone of your story is one of depth and richness. It is full of joy and life, livelihood, joy, and all the descriptions that complete the story in a very rich way. There is more abundance of everything in your life in every way you can conceive it. And there may be dozens and even hundreds of images of all kinds that may come to your mind. The story of your life unfolds in the best way that you could possibly imagine on all counts, everything unfolding in the best way possible for you. And once again, as you listen to the sound of our voice, become aware of your breathing.. and in a moment we will count from three to one and at one you will open your eyes, be fully aware and awake, conscious in your environment and knowing that in the depth of your being you may have had a very nice experience that you can return to when you need to. Take a deep breath now to revitalize your body. Three, two and one. Open your eyes, move your hands and toes, fingers, continue breathing nicely, being fully awake, returning to your normal awareness.. (Pause) . How do you feel now? BRIAN: Very relaxed. It was a nice little journey. I feel real good, Kris! KRIS: Indeed. And others? BRIAN: I think they fell asleep! LISA: I feel excited for something, but I don't know what it is. KRIS: May we suggest you keep up the excitement. LISA: Okay! KRIS: Any others? ANYA: I was noticing that, what Lisa was referring to, the excitement, this opportunity to see everything in the best case scenario kind of open up a new perspective for myself, so thank you for that. KRIS: Indeed. Any others? TOM: Kris, I came up with. I don't know, I was getting quite a bit of information about images, about desire and about feeling-tones, and just kind of formulating things in my mind on how things work, what triggers our desires and whether images are required when generating, changing our feeling-tones and stuff like that. KRIS: This is what you were concentrating during that experience? TOM: That's what was coming to me. I was just kind of letting my mind be there. I was listening to everything you were saying, but another train of thought was there also. KRIS: Indeed. And what do you think that was about? TOM: Um. that's just how my mind works.. there was a second conversation going on in Framework 2 maybe? I don't know. KRIS: Now, for yourself in particular, altered states, being able to dissociate is a rather easy phenomenon. You may not even know that you are quite proficient at it. Thus, it is quite likely that you were doubly dissociated in the state, observing part of the process of putting your story together, the story of your life of whom and what you are in itself. Does that make sense? Do you follow? TOM: Yes I do. I thought that meditation was helping me quite a bit in understanding all that. KRIS: Indeed. Now just as somebody putting together or building a house, they require more than nails, more than wood, they require all sorts of ingredients, just like a recipe for chocolate cake. You need more than a bowl and you need more than an egg and milk, correct? TOM: Yes. KRIS: Otherwise all you have is French toast. TOM: (Laughs) Yes. KRIS: So your own awareness requires that you utilize different ingredients to put together that storyline that is your life and what we are saying then, is that already in that state, you were doubly detached so that you can not only listen but at the same time reach into the state and make an observation concerning images, imagery and other ingredients you use that you pull together to make the recipe of your life. Does that make sense? TOM: Yes it does. Exactly, yes. It does. KRIS: So that gives you an incredible opportunity to deeply consider that on the one hand - and this not only addresses you, but it does address yourself and everyone else - the ability to recognize that when you come across limitations, anything in your life that you feel is limiting you and your potential, that you have the resources to recognize what it is because you wrote that in some way into the story of your life, correct? TOM: Yes. KRIS: And if you wrote it in, in some way, shape or form, even if you do not remember how you did this at some point during the lifetime of your story, that you have the ability to go into that story and make any adjustment that you want for an outcome that may at one time have suited you and no longer does so that now there is an outcome that suits you in this moment. Does that also make sense? BRIAN: Yes! That does, Kris! TOM: Oh yeah. BRIAN: I was just thinking about that. KRIS: And this is a process that is not utilized only by a few people here and there, say for instance the ones you admire in life. It occurs at all levels for all individuals, individually and collectively. Right now, there is a mass event building up to a crescendo in but a few days. On Tuesday you have your election, but IS that election influencing only those individuals within the borders of the United States of America? Indeed not. That particular election will send forth waves of influences all over the planet in the same way that the main character in your story influences in some way, shape or form, those other characters that are part of the story and vice versa. At this moment you are conscious AS the main character. You are not conscious as any other character even though other characters are part of your story. Does that make sense to you? BRIAN: Mmhm. KRIS: But YOU become conscious of the character you are, by the influences that are offered by the OTHER characters in your story through which you are not necessarily conscious. Your consciousness abilities at this point in time do not include you to be simultaneously conscious as all the characters in your story. Does that make sense to you? Do you understand the premise? BRIAN: Intuitively, yes. KRIS: Anyone else care to comment? THERESA: Are you implying that that ability to be consciously aware of several characters simultaneously is in our potential and perhaps in our future? KRIS: Indeed. At this point in time/space in your individual and collective story, you have not written in the potential, at least up to this point in time/space. But when you give yourselves that ability to recognize that it is such, then you may be simultaneously conscious of yourselves as more than one individual in the same point of time/space. Right now that is strictly at the level of Essence. THERESA: And do we not experience that.? It seems like we experience that in our dream state. KRIS: In the dream state you can get reflections of this, indeed, but you are not fully.. how do we say? . Full-fledged conscious in that area. You experience snippets and the more you awaken to such potential, the more you build neurological pathways in the brain. Your brain has potentials far beyond what is used at this moment. You call that "subconscious" but that conscious part of you, that which you identify with yourself, has a great deal more potential to be fulfilled but it is an experimentation in the process of unfolding. Thus, when you become aware that within your own storyline there are areas where you encounter what you label as a limitation, that you have potential to alter that story in such a way that the limitation, though well intentioned, can actually become an advantage. That is what we have been hinting at with the CMI and the "Change the World" [online workshops]. Do you follow? THERESA: Are you saying that the limitation can become an advantage because we recognize it and overcome it and transform it, or because we live within it and turn it into an advantage and keep it? KRIS: We would say that both apply. THERESA: Ah ha. KRIS: The limitation is only in appearance. Once the limitation dissolves, simply because it is in its own right an illusion, often simply because you do not recognize that you do have choices in that area and once you do, the limitation becomes a great opportunity to expand in awareness because you can offer yourself more choices then. At that time, you begin to ponder just how much MORE you are as an individual. Does that make sense to you? THERESA: Yes, because when you go beyond that limitation you're experiencing something you hadn't experienced before. You're experiencing something unknown to you, so you're expanding. KRIS: In many ways, yes, in then you recognize the innate processes of value fulfillment. It is not that you should now become worshippers of so-called limitations, but that you simply recognize that when you see and acknowledge a certain area of your life in that way, that it presents an opportunity for growth and that growth comes when you move beyond the label. The simple process of moving from an over-identification such as from saying that you are always tired to recognizing that there are times when you FEEL tired can have a significant impact. And this is perhaps a rather crude example and perhaps even very minor, but it may very well lead you on to quantum leaps in acknowledging just how you write that story that is your life. Does that make some sense to you? THERESA: Yes. KRIS: Any other observations? Anyone else? Thank you.(Pause). Then may we suggest a small break? That is a very nice part of the story, is it not? Break time. [Break begins at 8:40 PM] TOM: Theresa, a question for you. THERESA: Yes? TOM: You paraphrased Kris that we have the potential to awaken to other probable selves and be aware of that at the same time so we can see our own limitations in a different light.. Was that your understanding of that conversation? THERESA: Yeah, although in my own mind I didn't label it as other parallel lifetimes, but when he talked about seeing from the perspective of more than one conscious mind could be other aspects of Self or other people.. just like when you experience in the dream state and you're an observer and you're experiencing the activities that everybody's participating in, in the dream? You've probably had that if you stop and think about it, and it's like you're living through multiple characters at the same time within the dream. TOM: Mmhm. THERESA: That's how I understood what he was implying because he kept saying that that's something that we can't do yet. TOM: Okay. BRIAN: Isn't Ellen doing that with Charlie? TOM: That's another focus as opposed to another probable self. BRIAN: Right. ALAN: You know, I think I've got an example of this that just happened: I've been working with integrating an aspect or two that I had kind of shut out in childhood and starting to experience different points of view that they have that have not been a part of my awareness. And one of the things I just stumbled into last night is a recognition of a negative belief that I've held for a long time and it was from that other aspect. And it was like, when I was thinking as this other aspect, all of a sudden this negative belief popped out crystal clear to me and it was just so obvious it was overwhelming, but [in] my regular focus I wasn't getting to that belief.. And it just hit me, when you guys were talking, that that might be an example of exactly what Kris is talking about. TOM: Yeah, when I think of the probable selves, I.. you know, I've had dreams, and I've known myself as somebody that's living in Buffalo and I imagine also from my dreams that I know myself as somebody that has a life in California.. I think that one's doing a lot of drugs these days.. (Laughter) ALAN: (Humorously) Any good stuff? TOM: But they're all me, you know? They're not focuses of mine living in other times. It's all just something along this linear line that's split off at some point in time to explore some other aspects that I wasn't going to explore in my life. And when it was implied that we might be having an actual awareness as we walk down the street of "Well, I feel THIS way, but my California focus probability feels THAT way, and my New York probability is worried about THAT.." that just amazes me. That seems so much more do-able than a thousand other focuses out there. ALAN: Well, see I think the idea of just the aspects within you presently.. that's kind of where I'm headed off to. is even more immediate and do-able. I don't even think in terms of counterparts or other focuses or anything like that, I'm thinking strictly in terms of these sub-personalities that aspects represent and maybe that's the first kind of little proving ground where we start to become aware of these other personalities or points of view yet within the structure that we think is our own personality. ELLEN: I don't even think you have to separate them out. I think probable selves, past selves, future selves, aspect selves, Totem animal energies; all of them ARE important to us in that way. They ARE all aspects of ourselves. Whether we personify them or anthropomorphize them, whatever, they all have impacts upon us. We take from them and they take from us what is availed to us at any time when it becomes . when it's NEEDED. Back in New Jersey in the hotel room Kris mentioned something about another aspect of mine hanging around in the background and I knew who he was talking about because I had begun to encounter him in my explorations. and he's not a very savory character! ALAN: (Chuckling) ELLEN: He was a gangster hit man, a hired killer; and he killed a lot of people. And he was very, very good at what he did. MARK: (Humorously cutting in) Can I borrow him? ELLEN: And. You want to borrow him? Okay. (Laughs and the group laughs) And he was able to.. he had the ability to remain focused in the moment, to insulate his emotions down into a finely honed blade of awareness where he could shut out all the turmoil and the fear. And I recognize in myself that I have this ability when I'm in times of crisis. Even when inside I'm full of panic and fear, I can hold that intensity and stay in the moment and stay clearly focused, and it has been a quality that has carried me through many crisis points in my life. And recently I was wondering to myself: you know, this is great, to recognize this about yourself, that you have a skill, ability or talent, [but] what's the point in knowing where it came from, that it's this other aspect self that's giving it to you, especially when. you know, it comes from this unsavory character! (Laughs) ALAN: (Chuckling) ELLEN: But as I was sort of questioning my inner Self about it, I kept getting the words "High Art". Those words kept coming to me [that] your own life is a High Art and if you appreciate the skills and the talents you have, that's a very good thing, but by delving down into it and discovering these aspects that had their own full, rich lives and the knowledge and the wisdom that they can impart to you, and that you can impart back to them, it's very. it benefits both you and your aspect. There's more to it, but. [I hear Kris returning with his signature initial deep breaths and Mark quickly says the time, ending break with a chuckle.] MARK: 8:49. KRIS: (Dryly) May we add at least one point five cents of comment? ELLEN: (Jokingly) No! BRIAN: (Laughs) ELLEN: (Chuckling) Yes, please do. KRIS: Now, what you are describing is very appropriate. Whether you refer to these as aspects, parallel selves, past lives, future lives, probable selves, present selves - REGARDLESS - they are traits and characteristics and behaviors of the self, but that is not all that you are in exactly the same way that you are not the story of the life that you write and display. You are always MORE THAN that, in exactly the same way as the Shakespearian actor is not the character that he plays. He is more. He needs to be more than the character. The character is simply a behavior that he takes on for a period of time. Do you follow? ELLEN: Yeah, and this is also something that came to me a couple of days ago: a slightly different analogy was that appreciating your own abilities and talents is a good thing, but it's like looking at a masterpiece of art and trying to understand it just by examining the brush strokes. KRIS: That is correct. Or even the painting itself. The great artists are not their works of art. These are some of their expressions of their inner life, correct? ELLEN: Yeah. KRIS: And your own personal lives - all of you - you are not limited to those lives. You are "more than." Your lives are expressions of who and what you are. They are behaviors. The fireman, the policeman, the lawyer, the grocery clerk, the president, any human life, any individual, is NOT that. That is the behavior. You are always more than that life that you are living at that point in time, but you have, therefore, a particular advantage. You can write NEW scenarios, NEW dramas, NEW opportunities in that life that you are living, because you are, fortunately, not that life. Do you follow that? ELLEN: I believe so. THERESA: And not only can we script in new scenes, but we can even change our character; we can change our personality traits. KRIS: Indeed. You are the kind of creatures than can change their spots and stripes. That is the grace and the beauty of whom and what you are because you have your main existence outside of the story of your life. The story of your life is simply a manifestation of, an expression of. There are other stories that you write that do not fit into this time/space continuum. You then call them "probable selves," "other focuses," "past lives," "future lives," "possible selves" and so on and so forth. They are all aspects. Do you follow? ALL: Yes. KRIS: So with such an understanding then, you can literally perform incredible feats of wonder because you can change your story, because the story is not you. It may be about you, but it is not you. That is what you choose to display to manifest that particular point in time/space and you have many tools to do that with. If your stories were truly about everything that you tell yourselves that you cannot do, there would be very little that you could do, now wouldn't you? ALL: (Chuckling) KRIS: Thus, our question now is: What part of your story would you make any change to for a better outcome? Think about this for just a moment. Let your mind open up. Let your imagination have full rein. What would you have more of, what would you be more like? What else could you be and do? Look at the images that come up. Examine the feeling-tones and what do THESE bring up? What kinds of colors and sounds and scenarios would open up to you right now? What more excitement would you insert into the story? Where would you add, where would you change parts of your story? As a brief example, how many more people would you write into the story that listen to these discussions and share them with you in this particular way this evening? One, two, five? MARK: Thousands. ELLEN: (Chuckling) KRIS: Imagine all the possibilities available to you because as the author, you are not limited. Now, come out of the story you are imagining now in this moment. How does that feel? BRIAN: It was fun. THERESA: It's very motivating to think in these terms and it makes me re-define what life is and it can be.. it can have a lot more variety. KRIS: Indeed. THERESA: And a lot more drastic changes than what we typically think in terms of. KRIS: You are correct. For the most part, the average individual writes their stories along the lines that they were told to write that story by others: the authorities in their lives. Their mothers, their fathers, grandparents, teachers - the authority figures. An example of that: in your youth when you learned to draw with coloring crayons in coloring books. You may be told, for instance, "You do not paint or color people's faces purple! People's faces are always flesh-toned! And you do not draw outside the lines." Correct? ELLEN: Mmhm. KRIS: Those kinds of directives are well-intentioned. They are meant to help you toe the line of official consciousness. But what if you did want to draw someone's face a color other than flesh-toned? Would that break rules? What kind of rules did you write in your story that you may find now unable to understand thus feel as a limitation? Perhaps some of you have heard this old story: where the daughter sees her mother preparing the ham for Thanksgiving and sees the mother cutting off both ends of the ham even though there is ample space in the roaster or the pan. And daughter may ask mother "Why do you do that?" And mother may say, "Well my mother always cut them off." Thus, daughter goes to grandmother and grandmother says, "Well my mother always cut them off." Until one day grandmother remembers why her mother always cut them off: because her mother's pan was too small for the hams that were bought. Until you ask, you may never know. Do you follow? ELLEN: Mmhm. We're well conditioned. KRIS: Indeed. Many of your stories are just that. They are conditioned the way they are and until you inquire and you push the boundaries further back, well then, you may always think "Well, that is the way it is supposed to be!" ELLEN: We're not encouraged to embolden ourselves to be experimental and inventive. KRIS: Indeed! And in terms of authors, what makes a great and fascinating author? One who breaks the old boundaries. One who is able to fire up your imagination and that author does not draw within the lines. BRIAN: And her name is Jane Roberts! KRIS: There are many great authors. Thus, as authors of your lives, why do you do the things that you do? Think about it. You do not have to answer in any way, shape or form, but it may give you indications of where you might like to then go in and make changes to the story. Does that make sense to you? ELLEN: Yes, it does. KRIS: Indeed. And with that, we will leave you to ponder the kinds of stories that you can create for yourselves that take you to new heights, that make your heart resound with excitement, that make your blood course with anticipation of what kind of great stories you can live. And we thank you for your consideration. ALL: Thank you, Kris. [Session ends at 9:05] http://krischronicles.com/?p=1378
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