A Conversation Between Archangel Michael and Shams-Tabriz___2040
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------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ A Conversation Between Archangel Michael and Shams-Tabriz Archangel Michael: Welcome to you dear one! Shams-Tabriz: Hello Michael! Shams: I think we have a wonderful topic for a discussion today. We
want to talk about allergies in relationships. I'm talking about the
seven year itch (laughing). No. To be more sincere and more direct-Val
in her experiences with some friends of hers and independently I
myself as well in my interactions have encountered individuals who are
within relationships, in fact they're married. And they're unhappy in
their relationships for a variety of different reasons. And yet they
continue within those relationships and they continue-in a sense
because of their unhappiness-to distance themselves from their
partners. And this unhappiness stems perhaps from many different reasons, not
the least of which perhaps is that the two partners in the marriage at
one time may have been of one mind so to speak, but since settling
into their relationship have distanced each other by perhaps being
inconsiderate of each others needs and wants and life styles. And so a
sense of separation almost seems to take place. And yet these
individuals continue to reside within these relationships. So Michael,
I've said a lot to set the stage for this discussion. Would you care
to share some wisdom with us on this topic? Michael: First and foremost in order for any of these women or men in
order for any change to take place there needs to be a healing that
has taken place within the individual first before an outer change can
take place within the relationship. And so what happens is that many
of you-the ones that are unhappy in their relationship-as you have
said "find distance between their partners". It is important for each
individual to be clear in what it is they so choose/desire-what their
expectations are in the relationship. Once they have clarity and they are TRUTHFUL, and we will say again
TRUTHFUL-TRUTHFUL-TRUTHFUL that is a key to bring joy into one's life.
It is to be truthful within themselves about what it is they feel in
the relationship. What it is they want out of the relationship. What
it is they are looking for out of life itself in general. For if they
cannot be completely honest-truthful-or as you say transparent within
themselves then they will stay stuck in the mud and it will be hard
for them to make a move and move forward into arriving at experiences
that bring them love, joy, happiness, and friendship-all of these
things-harmony and peace even within their relationships. It is important for each individual to be clear in what it is they
so choose/desire-what their expectations are in the relationship. Shams: Right and I think that one of the obstacles that people face in
being truthful is that they feel pain as a result of it. It's almost
as if by not acknowledging it they reside in a state of numbness where
they don't have to feel anything. But the moment they begin to
acknowledge what the cause of their displeasure is or the truth of
what they do want and how they do perceive the relationship to be and
then they see they don't have that. They experience it as pain so it
almost becomes a deterrent to them. Michael: Indeed, because it is quite painful accepting the fact that
you have brought into your life these circumstances that are making
you quite miserable. It is hard to face up to that. Secondly when they
feel the pain it is very hard for them to sum up the courage to get
past it. It is an underlying fear that they have. "What will happen if
I change this, what will happen to me?" It is the fear of the unknown
and in some cases the known. So that is the underlying current to the
situation of not being able to be truthful, honest with oneself.
However, it is important for one to muster up the courage to stand
forth and to go through one's feelings, for unless you go through the
fire you cannot be purified, so to speak. Shams: I was going to say that I imagined that another fear that
stifles them or even perhaps paralyzes them in such a situation is the
fear of what will happen in the event that they make the
acknowledgement that this is not what they wish to experience and face
change. So it's the fear perhaps of that change and what that outcome
may be. The outcome of perhaps being alone, of being homeless, of
having everything new, of being scorned by family and society-in some
regards this is still considered a shameful thing to break up a
marriage. And so the fear of even that paralyzes them; they're left
weighing the two uncomfortable scenarios and they stick with the
known, which although it is uncomfortable at least it's a known. Michael: They choose. Shams: Right! Without really choosing. Michael: No. We will say they purposely choose, some of them. Because
they know they are afraid of the unknown or the scorn or being without
income or anything such as this. They would rather chose to be in a
relationship of unhappiness, instead of choosing for joy and
happiness. Shams: Right. Michael: But then it is for them to take responsibility for this
choice, to know that they will continually be within the whirlwind or
the tunnel until they choose differently. You see? Shams: Yes, I do. Michael, you spoke earlier about the healing. So,
within this all, what do you then mean by "the healing must take place
first from within"? Michael: It goes hand in hand. When you are able to be truthful with
yourself, to be honest with what it is you are afraid of choosing and
the reason behind it, then you are able to start to heal yourself on
an individual basis. It is not at this point to necessarily heal the
relationship, it is to heal yourself-and to forgive yourself for not
feeling you are strong enough to make changes that would make you
happy. We see many of you who do not choose to change their situations
for financial reasons or family reasons or things such as this. And so
internally, there is a part of them that feels they have failed
themselves. You see? Shams: Yes. Michael: And they need to forgive themselves. They are only human. And
so be it if they choose to remain in their relationships-so be it! It
is another experience that they will have-and have to learn from. But
they need to heal themselves. Shams: Right. Right. Michael: And by forgiving themselves they will learn to heal
themselves. And once they come to a place where they have forgiven
themselves and healed themselves, they will find strength and courage
within their own spirit-and will be able to come to a place where they
make choices that truly bring them joy and happiness. They will no
longer have the fear, for they know everything will be taken care of. And by forgiving themselves they will learn to heal themselves. Shams: Right. And I think for many it is very much a novel concept
that any marriage is only as real as it is viable. Meaning that it is
only of relevance when it is truly a partnership in love and in honor
and in trust and in truth and in faith, in benevolence, in kindness,
in consideration, in joy. And the moment that it ceases being so -
assuming that these are the intentions the individuals have in marriag-
then in reality it ceases being the marriage. Then one is free to move
on with one's life and to seek, perhaps, another relationship that
brings them the fulfilment and the ingredients of a relationship that
they seek. Michael: Ah, this is where you have to be careful with certain
wordings. For even if you are having trouble in a marriage and you are
not bringing all those qualities to it, energetically you are still
attached to this one with whom you have spent many hours and years
with. You understand? And so energetically you are still considered
married. It is not until you have completely pulled the trigger, been
honest with yourself, healed yourself, forgiven yourself, and
consciously made a choice that, "Ah, we may be married but in my mind
we are no longer." You see? Shams: Right. Michael: And in most instances this is not the case. Yes, in some. But
not always. But even those that say they are not married still have an
energetic tie, because they are still with this person for many hours,
many days, and many years-it continues to be so. And so that energy
connection has not been broken. Shams: Of course. This makes sense Michael. Of course. Michael: What happens is that the relationship no longer brings them
growth, no longer brings them the joy and the happiness that they so
deserve. Shams: And would you say that within these times in which we live,
these experiences are actually amplified? That it is very much in the
forefront for many people? That because we live in a time and a space
of high, fine frequencies-ever higher and ever fine -we can no longer
allow ourselves to be deceived? We can no longer deceive ourselves? We
can no longer hide from our feelings and our experiences-and they are
coming forward for us to face? Michael: Indeed. Everything is in your face. You can no longer hide.
And that goes for your relationships as well. Shams: Right. Right-right-right. (Joking) And so it's not just a
coincidence of the "seven year itch". Michael: No. For everyone has their own specific seven year itch. It
could be in the first year. It could be in the thirtieth year,
fortieth year, and so forth. (Laughing) Shams: Ah, Michael. This is wonderful wisdom and guidance. Thank you
so much! Michael: Ah, you are most welcome Shams. Most welcome.
About the Channel © Copyright by Valerie Wood and Shams-Tabriz Habib. All Rights
Reserved. Valerie Wood has been a clear and gifted angelic channel/medium since
2002. She channels Archangel Michael as well as other angelic
energies, ascended masters, and the Christ Consciousness. She is also
gifted in bringing forth messages from loved ones. Valerie grew up in
an ordinary Midwest home, where as teenager she had some not-so-
ordinary experiences. In 1990 she had her first visual contact with an
angel, which transformed her and put her on her spiritual discovery.
In 2002 she became the gifted protégé of internationally known channel
Elmarilla Bailey, who channels the integrated energies know as Irsha.
She is dedicated to bringing forth divine messages of beauty, joy,
gentleness, love, and service to help her clients discover all that
they are. Valerie is also collaborating with Shams-Tabriz on a book
and seminar series. Valerie may be contacted for personal channeling
sessions at www.discoveringdivinity.com About the Host
Shams-Tabriz Habib is the founder of The Rumi Group, a dynamic
organization focused on sponsoring global change. The Rumi Group is
currently developing an elaborate commercial project named Ruminations
that aims to awaken 'western' interest in the question of economic
equality in the developing world. Ruminations will demonstrate the
tremendous value of partnerships with poor grassroots producers
worldwide, modeling how thoughtful relations may benefit both the
commercial and development sectors. Ruminations Cafés will market hand-
crafted goods from developing countries around the world. The model
shop will host a central café and coffeehouse artfully encircled by
boutique merchandise. Subtle exhibits will tell the story of the
remote regions where these goods were produced and the impact to be
made by supporting their development through global enterprise. Shams-
Tabriz is also collaborating with Valerie Wood on a book and seminar
series about the evolving consciousness of humanity and the roles to
be played by its mindful torchbearers. www.discoveringdivinity.com
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