Gracie: RUN, don't walk, to Al Anon; this is the companion program to Alcoholics Anonymous; for people living with alcoholics; it will help you find the right actions to take and give you support, and also teach you to not "enable" your husband's drinking.
It is very hard to sit and watch someone "re-arrange" the deck chairs on the Titanic. You no longer have to be a participant in the insanity or be a bystander to your husband's slow, self-inflicted destruction.
Good luck and God Bless...
Robin H.(CA)