JT your having a time of it and i can't honsetly say i know how your feeling because not been in that position,my heart goes out to you all.I can however understand your chronic pancreatitis and i know you can't have any stress, as it will no doubt bring your pain on worse.Just make your hubby as comfortable as possible and he knows your there for him which will be of great help to him.Everyone is here for you.Take care x