The comment "either way, it's all good" is another ego originated fallacy to sustain the ego dream self.
NO! Any way is not good, nor is it bad,...there is truth, while everything else is distraction. Of course, New Agers do not want to realize this,...and their beliefs won't allow it. 99.6% of people cannot see beyond their beliefs. The more Sagittarian or New Agy of those (those who consistantly believe they are evolving)are so deeply entrenched in the past,...so adament about their continuing expanding,...will problably be the very last to get it, if they get it at all.
As above, so below,...there is only so much time to "get it". Just as a single life ends, the process of many incarnations will end also,...if you haven't uncovered who you are by then, no amount of wishful "thinking" about "either way, it's all good" will help. No two thousand year old jew is going to reach out before the oblivian and "save" you.
If you cannot recognize the light that you are before death, you, the you that you think you are, remains in the lower levels of the dream. If you are in the lower levels of the dream when the dream comes to close, who is to say that you don't go the way of your last nightmare or dreampt pleasure.
I cannot imagine a true compassionate person encouraging someone as yourself,...someone who encourages mediocrity, diversion, distraction, denial, suppression.
One "tell" of a person on track to wake-up is that their passion is truth. There is no truth within the statement "either way is all good." Such a comment is a Long Path one.
Isaac Newton famously wrote: "If I have seen further... it is by standing on the shoulders of giants".
(the giant) Saraha said, “He who thinks of mind in terms of one or many casts away the light and enters delusion.” Oneness is baseless verbal fiction. Oneness is Aristotelian logic and the delusion of theism.
JV Marco